e[lust] #53 - The Goodbye Kiss

e[lust] #53

Dec162013

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Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The negative impact of media exposure on sex

Poetry

Christmas Eve

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

SexyLittleIdeas – Childfree Environmentalist
Thwack
Bisexuality (It’s complicated)
The Goodbye Kiss
Our Contraception Journey Part 8: Mirena IUS
Silencing Their Demons
My Sex Education
Optimism
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“Pick a hole. You know what happens next.”
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A Letter To Little Marie
Floating and Tingly
Another Kind of Gratitude
Thick Cocks and the Art of the Silent Blowjob
“Your cum is in my hair.”
Finding Out
Jigsaw
Melding Pleasure and Pain
Personal: DSL Experiment Week #2
The Blowjob

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Hello Ma’am
Placed Around My Neck
Being a Babygirl
The Wanderings of a Sadistic Mind
The Big Mistake Even Good Submissive Men Make
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Dermarollers: Kinky, Sadistic, and Fun!
Crawling & Kneeling

The Goodbye Kiss

If there is one thing I have learned from my punting time, it is that open, sexual relationships, whether 'commercial', buddies, casual, poly-amorous or anything else, must be unselfish.  To be open enough to enter into a close intimate ‘relationship/friendship’ of this sort, we must be equally open enough to let each other move on when the time comes.

I have written about my relationship with T before in "Booty Buddies?".

During some of our pillow talks, she mentioned that she had started dating someone and I said that she just had to ‘say the word’ and I would step aside.

Well a couple of months passed where for various reasons we did not see each other. Then I dropped in to her home just before Christmas with a hamper of goodies.  She welcomed me with a chaste kiss, and I knew instantly that my time had come.  We spent the rest of the afternoon sipping chai lates, sitting in recliners on her front porch overlooking her cottage garden and the sun slowly sinking over the bay.  We talked very opening about our relationship (she always said that we were a pair of survivors), the good times we had had.  We talked about her recent loss of her mother, her health issues, looking for a new career, the side effects of contraceptive implants, my own home life issues, and their future plans together.

As the sun touched the horizon, I collected my few belongings stashed in her bedroom. She expressed the hope that the ‘girls’ back at the parlour would ‘look after me’.  We hugged farewell at my car and with a final peck on the cheek I drove home in the sunset.

Bon Voyage through the rest of your life T with your new man.